PAST LIVES
2023 | Dir. Celine Song | 106 Minutes
"We're not babies anymore."
Childhood friends Nora and Hae Sung reconnect in person after 24 years apart. Although Nora is married and happy with her life in New York City, the pair question destiny and what might have been.
Celine Song's semi-autobiographical Past Lives is a bittersweet film about missed opportunities and the unyielding progression of life. Despite presenting what is ostensibly a love story premise, the picture instead delivers an admirably realistic narrative that alternates between a casually voyeuristic lens and a more intimate perspective. Devoid of misguided grand romantic gestures, the narrative instead portrays a mature relationship between two people with an indelible bond that has lost all romantic potential due to circumstances that are beyond the control of any one person, and it does so with plenty of natural humor and heartfelt empathy.
Past Lives invites the audience to people-watch but not to judge. The picture opens with a conversation between unseen observers as they innocently speculate about the relationships that connect the three leads, while various pairings of people populate the background in scenes that take place in public spaces as if nudging the viewer speculate themselves on the details surrounding the various connections. These moments juxtapose well with the intimate insight the story provides for Nora and Hae Sung's complex and nuanced friendship.
The way that language is used in Past Lives to convey love and kindness is rather ingenious. When Nora and Hae Sung initially reconnect over Skype, the dialogue calls attention to the fact that Nora's Korean is rusty because she exclusively speaks it when conversing with her mother and with Hae Sung, implying that her connection with Hae Sung as at least as strong as her connection with Hae Sung without outright calling attention to the fact. Nora's husband Arthur speaks Korean to her, albeit poorly as she points out to Hae Sung, in an effort to be closer to her, communicating to the audience everything they need to know about how much Arthur is committed to Nora. In one of the film's most amusing scenes, Hae Sung and Arthur try to communicate with one another in the other's native tongue, both earnestly trying to be friendly with awkward mixed results at best. When Nora and Hae Sung have a heart-to-heart in Korean while Arthur is present, the dramatic tension is almost unbearable.
The powerful connection between Nora and Hae Sung is played to perfection by the picture's two leads who share spectacular chemistry. As Nora, Greta Lee is naturally charismatic, delivering an equally funny and dramatic performance. Teo Yoo is incredibly charming and affecting in the role of the lovesick Hae Sung. Playing Arthur, John Magaro is also very impressive, believably embodying a remarkably understanding husband placed in a uniquely uncomfortable position, truly the source of much of film's comedy.
Past Lives is a soulful, profound film that contemplates lost love. The feature authentically depicts the process of two people confronting paths not taken and genuinely moving on. It's a universally relatable narrative that is perfectly captured in this lovely and somewhat melancholy picture.
FRAGMENTS
- Recommending Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind to a man who clearly has a crush on you is low-key malicious
- My movie streaming app crashed the moment Nora hugged Hae Sung in the scene after the pair meet in person for the first time since they were kids
